You and your ex have parted ways and suddenly you feel that life is meaningless without him. So the next logical step is to give him a few hundred calls or send him countless messages just to let him know - yes, that you are missing him. When he does not respond, you feel even worse.
Why not try to turn the tables and make him miss you in stead. If you have spent sleepless nights since you separated, why not make him experience insomnia for a change?
How do you make your ex miss you? By showing him that you are not missing him! Forget about missing him, you are not even thinking of him. Make it a point to evaporate from the scene and even if you bump into your ex, pretend that life could not have been better. You have your own priorities and have respected his decision to split. What more does he want? Though difficult to put up with this show, but you have no idea how effective this technique is. When you show him that you are not missing him, he suddenly feels that he has lost complete control over you and that it self is a double blow to his ego!
Try to look at the good side even in your bad fortune. Why not use this time of separation to do something wonderful to your mind and body? Meet old friends, join a gym, get yourself some new clothes, sport a new hair style, watch funny movies and generally hang out with friends whose company you have always enjoyed. These activities have immense therapeutic value.
Once you develop a new hobby or interest, meet new people and operate on a different plane, your ex would be in for a complete surprise. So, finally you have moved on! And this it self is a great and fool-proof trigger to make him miss you. Before you know it, he might also be chasing you all over again.
Don't give up on the love of your life yet. There is still hope! You can reverse the breakup |
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