Why Men Leave Women - One Main Reason

A man may give more than one reason if not a dozen different reasons they don't want to be around anymore. Why do they do this, are they trying to confuse you, or are they confused themselves?

This has turned out to be quite a challenge for relationship experts and psychologists to sort it all out. Relationship studies and polls have shown that the varied "reasons" men give out are often because they have problems sorting out their own feelings. And most men have trouble putting their own feelings into words.

After sifting through the hundreds of different responses from men, the experts came to one conclusion. Men primarily start losing interest and will eventually leave a relationship when they stop feeling admired. The problem in figuring this out and coming to this conclusion is that that no red-blooded man is going to say, I don't feel admired anymore.

Men need to feel admired, When this feeling stops it is a major frontal attack on not only their self esteem, but calls their manhood into question. At first this may seem all to simple and a little unbelievable. But when you start to give it some thought you will realize that it is really true.

Let's talk about some common situations that go on around the world everyday. Two people meet and get together, and at the start she is quite taken with him and she lets him know it very often by giving him many compliments. Even more important she is always smiling and seems very happy when he is around.

This is a major clue, a man will measure by and large how well they are doing in a relationship and how admired they are by how happy their woman appears to them! One thing to remember is that for a man a happy woman=admiration. One of the recurring reasons that came up over and over about why a man left was, no matter what I did I couldn't make her happy anymore.

This is also the #1 reason why a man will cheat, when another woman comes along and makes him feel admired, a smiley, happy and giggly co-worker or acquaintance that showers him with compliments and beams whenever he walks in the room is an incredible turn on for a man. This can put your relationship at risk of infidelity, if a man does not feel admired in the relationship he is in. This has much less affect, and is not a threat when a man feels admired at home.

So should you go around like a ditsy, giggly, school girl to get your man back? Not at all. Think about this, a man feels admired when the woman he is with is happy with him. There are many things that you can do but it is important to understand that one of the things that men complain most often about it is nagging. Nagging is the fastest killer of a relationship. Does that mean you should not express your feelings about what you want? You most certainly can you just have to do it in a more effective way.